{"id":2969,"date":"2022-01-04T06:39:23","date_gmt":"2022-01-04T06:39:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/codetofreedom.com\/?p=2969"},"modified":"2022-01-04T06:39:24","modified_gmt":"2022-01-04T06:39:24","slug":"goede-voornemens-resoluties-vermijd-7-valkuilen","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/codetofreedom.com\/cs\/novorocni-predsevzeti-vyvarujte-se-7-nastrah\/","title":{"rendered":"\u0160\u0165astn\u00fd nov\u00fd rok! Dobr\u00e9 z\u00e1m\u011bry? Vyhn\u011bte se selh\u00e1n\u00ed s t\u011bmito 7 n\u00e1strahami."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>80 procent novoro\u010dn\u00edch p\u0159edsevzet\u00ed se \u010dasto stejn\u011b rychle objevilo znovu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Mnoz\u00ed z n\u00e1s si dali nov\u00e1 p\u0159edsevzet\u00ed a nov\u00e9 c\u00edle. Nap\u0159\u00edklad v\u00edce cvi\u010dit, j\u00edt novou cestou, z\u00edskat novou pr\u00e1ci, napsat knihu, up\u0159ednost\u0148ovat v\u00edce \u010dasu na m\u011b. Dali jste si tak\u00e9 p\u0159edsevzet\u00ed pro sebe?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A\u0165 u\u017e jste to ud\u011blali nebo ne, \u010dt\u011bte d\u00e1l, proto\u017ee to neplat\u00ed jen pro novoro\u010dn\u00ed p\u0159edsevzet\u00ed, ale pro ve\u0161ker\u00e9 snahy o stanoven\u00ed c\u00edl\u016f a jejich dosa\u017een\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2>Pro\u010d selhat s na\u0161imi c\u00edli nebo dobr\u00fdmi \u00famysly?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>M\u00e1me-li tak dobr\u00e9 a siln\u00e9 \u00famysly, pro\u010d v\u016fbec selh\u00e1v\u00e1me?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3>Vhled nesta\u010d\u00ed<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>V\u011bt\u0161ina nov\u00fdch p\u0159edsevzet\u00ed a c\u00edl\u016f je zalo\u017eena na post\u0159ehech, emoc\u00edch a kr\u00e1tkodob\u00e9 motivaci, a p\u0159esto\u017ee jsou pro za\u010d\u00e1tek skv\u011bl\u00e9, nesta\u010d\u00ed k tomu, aby n\u00e1s udr\u017eely v oddanosti na\u0161im p\u0159edsevzet\u00edm.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Mus\u00edme si pak uv\u011bdomit, \u017ee kdy\u017e mluv\u00edme o nov\u00e9m c\u00edli nebo novoro\u010dn\u00edm p\u0159edsevzet\u00ed, mluv\u00edme o d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9 a dlouhotrvaj\u00edc\u00ed zm\u011bn\u011b v na\u0161em chov\u00e1n\u00ed. Na\u0161e chov\u00e1n\u00ed je zalo\u017eeno na zvyc\u00edch vytvo\u0159en\u00fdch v pr\u016fb\u011bhu let. To znamen\u00e1, \u017ee d\u011bl\u00e1me v\u011bci na autopilota.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/pmc\/articles\/PMC3505409\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">V\u00fdzkum<\/a> ukazuje, \u017ee zm\u011bna dlouhodob\u00e9ho n\u00e1vyku je pom\u011brn\u011b obt\u00ed\u017en\u00e1 a co je nejv\u00edce pot\u0159eba, je vytvo\u0159en\u00ed nov\u00e9ho, v\u00edce \u017e\u00e1douc\u00edho n\u00e1vyku. Jakmile bude m\u00edt n\u00e1\u0161 mozek tuto novou alternativu, kter\u00e1 byla v pr\u016fb\u011bhu \u010dasu aplikov\u00e1na, bude nakonec d\u016fv\u011b\u0159ovat a zautomatizovat po\u017eadovan\u00e9 nov\u00e9 chov\u00e1n\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tento proces vy\u017eaduje \u010das, \u00fasil\u00ed a p\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm discipl\u00ednu. Dobr\u00e1 zpr\u00e1va je, \u017ee discipl\u00ednu lze tr\u00e9novat. Prov\u00e1d\u011bn\u00edm kr\u00e1tk\u00fdch cvi\u010den\u00ed v\u0161\u00edmavosti b\u011bhem dne nau\u010d\u00edte sv\u016fj mozek soust\u0159edit se.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nejd\u016fle\u017eit\u011bj\u0161\u00ed zpr\u00e1va, kterou si mus\u00edte zapamatovat, pokud chcete vytrvat a dr\u017eet se sv\u00e9ho nov\u00e9ho c\u00edle: k jeho dosa\u017een\u00ed je zapot\u0159eb\u00ed 20 procent vhledu a 80 procent du\u0161evn\u00ed s\u00edly. Je to tady <a href=\"https:\/\/codetofreedom.com\/cs\/gids-het-pareto-principe-80-20-regel-in-je-leven\/\" data-type=\"post\" data-id=\"1373\">pareto<\/a> zase princip.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3>Bu\u010f konkr\u00e9tn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Dingen zeggen als &#8220;Ik wil afvallen&#8221; of &#8220;Ik wil fitter worden&#8221; klinkt leuk, maar we weten niet precies wat we daarmee bedoelen want het is te algemeen geformuleerd. Om echt vast te houden aan een nieuw doel, moeten we precies weten wat het voor ons betekent. Je moet jouw goede voornemen of doel specifiek maken.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pokud chcete b\u00fdt fit, ur\u010dete si, co to pro v\u00e1s znamen\u00e1, jak\u00fd je po\u017eadovan\u00fd v\u00fdsledek, jak\u00e9 cviky budete d\u011blat, kdy a jak \u010dasto a d\u00e1le.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3>nem\u00e1\u0161 \u017e\u00e1dn\u00fd pl\u00e1n<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Tak\u017ee te\u010f, kdy\u017e m\u00e1me konkr\u00e9tn\u00ed c\u00edl, kter\u00fd m\u00e1me pod kontrolou a dosah, pot\u0159ebujeme pl\u00e1n. Konkr\u00e9tn\u00ed pl\u00e1n postupu, jak toho skute\u010dn\u011b dos\u00e1hneme. Pamatujte na c\u00edl \u201eChci ub\u011bhnout maraton v \u010dervenci 2022\u201c. I kdy\u017e u\u017e jste dostate\u010dn\u011b fit, abyste to dok\u00e1zali, st\u00e1le pot\u0159ebujete cvi\u010debn\u00ed pl\u00e1n, abyste dos\u00e1hli c\u00edle. Kolik dn\u00ed v t\u00fddnu b\u011bh\u00e1te, kolik kilometr\u016f v t\u00fddnu, kdy si odpo\u010dinete, jak budu j\u00edst atd.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Druh\u00e1 \u010d\u00e1st pl\u00e1nu, na kterou lid\u00e9 \u010dasto zapom\u00ednaj\u00ed, je kontrola pr\u016fb\u011bhu. Mus\u00edte si sami (mimo hlavu) nastavit syst\u00e9m, kde budete zaznamen\u00e1vat pokroky, kter\u00e9 d\u011bl\u00e1te ke sv\u00e9mu c\u00edli. Za prv\u00e9 ukazuje, jak si stoj\u00edte, ale za druh\u00e9 a co je d\u016fle\u017eit\u011bj\u0161\u00ed, m\u016f\u017ee v\u00e1m dodat sebev\u011bdom\u00ed, jakmile uvid\u00edte, \u017ee se dr\u017e\u00edte sv\u00e9ho pl\u00e1nu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3>C\u00edl je mimo va\u0161i kontrolu<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Aby na\u0161e c\u00edle fungovaly pro n\u00e1s, mus\u00ed b\u00fdt na dosah. Abychom to mohli ud\u011blat, mus\u00edme b\u00fdt nejprve konkr\u00e9tn\u00ed a za druh\u00e9 se rozhodnout, zda jsou v na\u0161em dosahu. To neznamen\u00e1, \u017ee se nem\u016f\u017eeme br\u00e1nit, ale mus\u00edme b\u00fdt realisti\u010dt\u00ed, jinak se rychle budeme c\u00edtit ohromeni a pora\u017eeni a nakonec kv\u016fli tomu p\u0159estaneme.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>To tak\u00e9 znamen\u00e1, \u017ee c\u00edle m\u016f\u017eeme stanovit pouze pro sebe a ne pro ostatn\u00ed. Pokud je nap\u0159\u00edklad va\u0161\u00edm novoro\u010dn\u00edm p\u0159edsevzet\u00edm lep\u0161\u00ed vztah s partnerem, m\u016f\u017eete si stanovit c\u00edle pouze pro sv\u00e9 vlastn\u00ed jedn\u00e1n\u00ed a chov\u00e1n\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3>Ujasn\u011bte si pro\u010d<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>I kdy\u017e je ji\u017e d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9 v\u011bd\u011bt, co (p\u0159edsevzet\u00ed nebo c\u00edl) a jak (pl\u00e1n); m\u00edt jasn\u00e9 pro\u010d, a tedy d\u016fvod, pro\u010d v\u00e1s motivovat, je to, co je vzru\u0161uj\u00edc\u00ed a co v\u00e1m usnad\u0148uje vytrvat, kdy\u017e jde do tuh\u00e9ho.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pokud chcete zhubnout, je jasn\u00e9, pro\u010d to chcete ud\u011blat? Chcete b\u00fdt zdrav\u011bj\u0161\u00ed, abyste si mohli d\u00e9le u\u017e\u00edvat \u017eivota s rodinou? Pokud chcete novou pr\u00e1ci, zn\u00e1te jej\u00ed d\u016fvod? Chcete nap\u0159\u00edklad p\u0159isp\u011bt k lep\u0161\u00edmu sv\u011btu, abyste se c\u00edtili c\u00edlev\u011bdom\u011bj\u0161\u00ed a \u0161\u0165astn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A\u0165 u\u017e je va\u0161e novoro\u010dn\u00ed p\u0159edsevzet\u00ed jak\u00e9koli, pono\u0159te se hluboko do skute\u010dn\u00e9ho v\u00fdznamu, kter\u00fd se za n\u00edm skr\u00fdv\u00e1.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3>Nem\u00e1te nikoho, kdo by v\u00e1s hnal k odpov\u011bdnosti<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Tento bod je vlastn\u011b jedn\u00edm z nejd\u016fle\u017eit\u011bj\u0161\u00edch. N\u011bkolik studi\u00ed ukazuje, \u017ee jakmile m\u00e1te konkr\u00e9tn\u00edho zodpov\u011bdn\u00e9ho kamar\u00e1da nebo skupinu, se kterou se dohodnete na pr\u00e1ci na sv\u00e9m c\u00edli, va\u0161e \u0161ance na \u00fasp\u011b\u0161n\u00e9 dokon\u010den\u00ed c\u00edle raketov\u011b rostou!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pokud tedy uva\u017eujete o b\u011bh\u00e1n\u00ed, zab\u011bhejte si s kamar\u00e1dem nebo \u0159ekn\u011bte bl\u00edzk\u00e9 osob\u011b sv\u00e9 konkr\u00e9tn\u00ed c\u00edle. Pokud uva\u017eujete o diet\u011b, ud\u011blejte ji se sv\u00fdm partnerem nebo p\u0159\u00edtelem.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3>Vzd\u00e1v\u00e1te se p\u0159i prvn\u00edm n\u00e1znaku ne\u00fasp\u011bchu<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>V\u0161ichni \u010das od \u010dasu nedosahujeme sv\u00fdch c\u00edl\u016f. Nejd\u016fle\u017eit\u011bj\u0161\u00ed v\u011bc, kterou m\u016f\u017eete ud\u011blat, je uznat, \u017ee ne\u00fasp\u011bch nen\u00ed katastrofa, ale lekce, kter\u00e1 v\u00e1s popostr\u010d\u00ed j\u00edt d\u00e1l a d\u00e1 v\u00e1m s\u00edlu znovu se spojit se sv\u00fdm novoro\u010dn\u00edm p\u0159edsevzet\u00edm. Nejde o to, kolik zdrav\u00fdch j\u00eddel nebo lekc\u00ed cvi\u010den\u00ed jste vynechali, ale o to, jak rychle se postav\u00edte na nohy, abyste to mohli ud\u011blat znovu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2>Ud\u011blejte z roku 2022 rok, ve kter\u00e9m uskute\u010dn\u00edte sv\u00e9 z\u00e1m\u011bry!<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>D\u00edky t\u011bmto poznatk\u016fm budete v\u011bd\u011bt, co d\u011blat, abyste dodr\u017eeli sv\u00e9 budouc\u00ed c\u00edle a novoro\u010dn\u00ed p\u0159edsevzet\u00ed. A\u0165 u\u017e chcete ud\u011blat nebo zm\u011bnit cokoli, ud\u011blejte z roku 2022 sv\u016fj rok!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><small class=\"sources\">Zdroje v\u010detn\u011b Forbes (<a href=\"https:\/\/www.forbes.com\/sites\/kathycaprino\/2019\/12\/21\/the-top-3-reasons-new-years-resolutions-fail-and-how-yours-can-succeed\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">odkaz<\/a>), IAMExpat (<a href=\"https:\/\/www.iamexpat.nl\/lifestyle\/lifestyle-news\/7-reasons-new-years-resolutions-fail-and-how-make-yours-stick\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">odkaz<\/a>), life hack (<a href=\"https:\/\/www.lifehack.org\/articles\/lifestyle\/10-reasons-why-new-years-resolutions-fail.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">odkaz<\/a>), \u010casy Indie (<a href=\"https:\/\/timesofindia.indiatimes.com\/life-style\/relationships\/love-sex\/tips-to-firmly-follow-your-new-year-resolutions\/photostory\/88537050.cms\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">odkaz<\/a>)<\/small><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>80 procent van de goede voornemens bij aanvang van het nieuwe jaar zijn vaak net zo snel weer verschenen. Velen van ons hebben nieuwe voornemens en nieuwe doelen gemaakt. Bijvoorbeeld meer gaan sporten, een nieuwe weg in slaan, een nieuwe krijgen baan, een boek schrijven, prioriteit geven aan meer me-time. Heb jij ook goede voornemens [&hellip;]<\/p>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":2980,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"inline_featured_image":false,"tdm_status":"","tdm_grid_status":""},"categories":[36],"tags":[122,150,145,14,46,137,153,83],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/codetofreedom.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2969"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/codetofreedom.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/codetofreedom.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/codetofreedom.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/codetofreedom.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2969"}],"version-history":[{"count":10,"href":"https:\/\/codetofreedom.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2969\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2979,"href":"https:\/\/codetofreedom.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2969\/revisions\/2979"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/codetofreedom.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2980"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/codetofreedom.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2969"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/codetofreedom.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2969"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/codetofreedom.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2969"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}